Awake since 4 this morning as I confiscated his i pad after midnight and it bleeped notifications at me!
Really worried about him; He had a virus a month ago, still coughing, run down, very tired, tearful. Depressed?
He has failed his first piece of English controlled assessment and had to re-do; he is absolutely crushed, despondent, says he can't do it. I have got a tutor and this started really well, but since the fail has been much less productive. He seems to have total writers block- scared of putting it on paper in case it is wrong. He reads, has a broad vocabulary and can spell.
I also feel he is letting his other subjects slip, even those he has previously loved.
Would it be reasonable to remove his i pad for the next two weeks? (Because he uses it way too much and too late at night) Write him an exam timetable? Make him revise downstairs where I can see him?
I've previously steered away from micromanagement; wanting him to learn to work for his own sake; but at the moment it doesn't seem to have worked.
He is a bright boy who should be looking at getting good grades, but it feels like it is all unravelling. He will be taking three GCSE's, including English next summer.
I want him to feel I am on his side and that we will help him get through this stage, but am a bit at a loss as the best way to help.
Any advice welcome!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Connect with other parents whose children are starting secondary school on this forum.
Secondary education
DS struggling with year 10
17 replies
Viewofthehills · 23/11/2014 06:53
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.