Year 7 boy. And I know people will say hes a boy its typically but DS1 seems to be taking his unorganised'ness (not even a word I know) to a whole new level.
Since sept hes lost
£40 pair of football boots
both his school jumpers
homework diary 4 times
whole pe kit
pe socks (replaced ones)
superdry coat
bus pass
kit bag
3 lots of stationary
ONE shoe lace x 3
I have a very strict homework and getting bags ready routine. I he does it. We check it. Somehow he has still forgotten/lost 9 pieces of homework since sept and forgets his homework diary at least once a week.
He has ADD. just reached the criteria for being diagnosed with it. He does have minimal support in school which I have pushed for.
Should I really be getting his bag ready every single night, or keep making him do it himself.
I have asked him to clean his room a lot this weekend. I've just gone in there and theres no bloody wonder he cant find anything. He hasn't cleaned it. Ive taken his xbox away numerous times and his phone. It has NO effect at all.
We have colour coded his timetable, printed it big, made lists with him. I just dont know what to do anymore. When I ask him why he doesn't seem to do these things asked of him he always says "i dunno" He's 11 years old. Am I expecting too much expecting him to get his own bag ready? I also asked him to put a sheet on his bed on Fri he still hasnt done it. He doesnt really have any chores to do apart from putting the dishes away every now and then.
We have a 6 year old with ADHD and other SN and a 2 year old going same way as 6 year old it seems. So we do have our hands full, plus im at college FT and DH works FT.
It's costing me a fortune. I've taken away pocket money when he loses things but it makes no sodding difference.
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How involved are you with your Y7 and getting them to do homework or be organised.
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mamicar · 24/11/2013 19:57
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