This may turn into a rant so please forgive me! My DD has attended a state primary school and an independent prep school. In September she started the local (Sikh) faith school. There were many reasons for this, the key reason being my DH was tired of DD being the only (half) Asian child in her school and wanted her to have a more varied environment and to appreciate her faith. Also community pressure as my in-laws are very well respected within our local Sikh community so they too felt DD should attend the school. But DD hates it! DD cannot get used to the larger class sizes nor the lack of personal support from teachers. She desperately wants to go back to the Secondary school which follows on from her prep school (where her friends are). DD does not fit in at the school- she is left out by the non-Sikh children and is made to feel like she isn't welcome by the children who share her faith! DH doesn't want to pull her out of the school just yet but doesn't like seeing DD so upset. The in-laws are convinced this couldn't really be happening and DD just isn't trying to make friends. Also, none of her 'friends' from prep school have kept in contact so I don't know how well it would go if she went back to her old school. The local non-faith state schools are very bad (terrible results and social issues) so they aren't an option, but other than DD's former independent school (co-ed) the only other option is a girls school- how successful is single sex in secondary school? Are results, generally, better? Also, are schools willing to take students back? DD is the first child and eldest grandchild so we don't know anybody else with children her age who has experienced this. Many thanks for any advice/sympathy in advance cries
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