Does anyone have any suggestions which could help DD at school?
She was recently bullied by a group of girls and kept it to herself for a couple of weeks. Nothing physical, just verbal abuse but then threats started to be made which is when she told me.
I discussed it with her and she wanted me to speak to the deputy head. I phoned the school, explained the situation and they promised to deal with it the next morning.
True to their word, they dealt with it and as a result, 4 girls were excluded. The deputy assured me that he would keep an eye on dd and monitor the situation closely.
All of the girls are now back at school and on the first day, they let loads of other people know dd got them excluded because she 'snitched' on them. They posted it on fb and I was sneaky clever enough to make a copy before they deleted it. I've told dd they got themselves excluded for being bullies but if they want to get technical about it, I got them excluded because I phoned the school and sent a copy of the threats to the teacher.
The girls are encouraging others to ignore dd at school. As a result, she is left with no-one to talk to or hang around with at break times. I suggested to DD that she should speak to deputy again to let him know how she is feeling. She approached him today to explain and he has told her she should try and stay out of the other girls way. I don't know what to do to help dd. She is very sad about it and I am upset for her but don't know what to do or say.
She will be leaving the school in July as we are moving but I can't not do anything as thats months away. I don't know if there is anything I can do, but I just feel that I should try.
Its parents evening this week, I don't actually want to go now but I know I should.
Can anyone offer me any advice? Or even just reassure me (and dd) that this will pass. She is finding it very hard and doesnt want to go to school.
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kid · 12/03/2013 22:46
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