Latymer Upper(85 Posts)
Our DS has been offered a place at Latymer Upper (year 7) and by a couple of schools further away; We and he really like what we've seen of LU but I'd be grateful to hear from current parents about any down sides/negatives we should be aware of, as well reasons why a bright but not especially cool or sophisticated boy would thrive there. Thanks!
boy who showed us round seemed more like a 40 year old than a 11 year old - scarily serious and mature!
Ahem! I am 53, and neither serious nor mature.
(And I went to Latymer as a boy)
I think the later tours that day were done by year 9 - are you sure he was 11?!
I have a son at LU and looking down the year directory, there are a very high percentage of non-British sounding names. To say that foreigners are unwelcome is not correct, it is just not the case.
Update for anyone still listening on how our first year at LU has been like. In a word: fundraising. The entire year has been spent being asked to raise money for the new school sports centre. Our friends' children have had school trips and a residential in the first term for the incoming children to get to know each other. What were LU pupils doing? They had a bake sale to raise money for the new sports centre. We parents threw dinners in January and charged our friends for the pleasure, to raise money for the new sports centre. Fundraise! Fundraise! Fundraise!
The happiest parents seem to be parents of boys, and that's no surprise. This school--parents of girls take note--is really geared for boys. The rules are pounded into them the entire first term. Perfectly good children, but rules are rules! There aren't many sports for girls either. Parents have had meetings with the new head of sport, but he doesn't know what to do about it.
The other official line is that the students are fine, but the parents are anxious because they are used to sweet prep schools. That's a very useful angle. The school has no responsibility to make the community cohesive for parents and students. The parents just need to take a chill pill!
You are absolutely right that this year there is fundraising as a priority. This was not the case last year. As you know the target has been met so next year will not be the same. I much rather the school chose to fundraise rather than hike up the fees and in any case in less than 18 months time we will all benefit from some great facilities including new pool and actually a whole new floor that I am sure will increase the minority sports for all, including the girls.
I am sorry your child has not had a good year. I hope they have been able to enjoy all the extracurricular activities, drama, music etc. and that she has a great time on the activity week coming up soon. For the record, I don't have experiences of rules being pounded into them in year 7. Was this just one form tutor or across the board? Certainly not our experience last year. Actually some rules may have been useful to some individuals! It is however a big school (160+ in a year) which I think can be a shock for some quieter children so is best suited to individuals who are more confident, social and love buzzy energetic places, with bags to do and want to get involved.
Seren - you sound rather unhappy. Are you regretting your choice?
LetsEscape, I don't know where the rule-pounding is coming from. It's not a big problem, only alongside the absence of other things.Beingfrank, DC will survive. Just some thoughts for anyone applying.
Hi - know this is a zombie thread but if any of you posting from before are still around to share how things turned out for your DCs 12/18 months on at LU, those of us that may be in a decision making position in a few weeks would be most appreciative!
In particular (for me), have things improved on the sports front for girls?
Hi I just saw this sorry Ealingwestmum!
Funny to read this thread after two years...
Our experience of the school is very positive. We are delighted.
Seren sounds unhappy about the fundraising last year. I saw it as a positive thing, they had to be imaginative and they learnt a skill which is highly valued in the world. When they finally get to use the new sports centre the children can feel they contributed to a brick or two... Anyway, it did not stop DS from doing hundreds of other things. He is so busy I hardly see him!
As to the comment about pounding of rules... I don't know where that comes from really. Funny she thinks rules are indicative of the school being geared towards boys rather than girls!! Don´t girls need rules??
Anyway, maybe the do have strict rules and they are the reason why DS is the only boy from his primary school circle of friends who has never ever been pushed in the corridor of his secondary school, or has never actually met any kind of violence or classroom disruption.
Is your choice LU? PM with any questions if you wish.
Don't worry hardboiled - it was a long shot and know I should not have asked a question on an old thread!
Thank you so much for coming back though - it does help to understand how people feel about a school once water is under the bridge. I know all schools have their cycles, but on balance, LU sounds the type of school my DD would love.
Today was a good day, 3 offers received and LU accepted immediately as we feel it's intuitively right. I will PM you if we have anything more specific, the offer is much appreciated!
Congratulations to your DD. And a good choice
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