Hi,
My dd started at the local comp in September. I have a few reservations but don't know whether I'm just being PFB! Could the MN collective wisdom tell me whether the following is generally accepted/normal:
-dd's tutor who is also her maths teacher (top set) admitted to me that he can't control the class (!). I had gone in to see him as dd told me she didn't enjoy maths anymore and they always had to work in silence. She couldn't ask for help as teacher always busy trying to control certain boys.
- looking in dd's exercise books, I can't say I'm impressed with her presentation. I have had words with her, but the teachers haven't commented as far as I can tell.
- they have started 2 MFL (French and Spanish) at the same time. Neither of these exercise books have been marked by the teacher. There is some 'peer marking' (incorrect!!)
- they are not doing a 'set text' in English yet (top set). Lots of peer marking apparant in exercise book.
- dd attached to her mobile phone on 'kick' and 'whatsapp'. She seems to receive a lot of 'chain mail' messages. They don't seem to upset her, but some seem quite alarming!
- We had a meeting with her tutor two weeks into term, but the first parents evening is not until Feb. No communication about progress or anything else at half term.
- An awful lot of the older girls seem to have dyed back combed hair, trowelled on make up etc. although the school rules state no make up etc. Dd aware of this and is asking whether school rules therefore "really matter"!
Please be gentle - I went to a tiny all girls secondary so all this is very new to me!!
Thank you!