Tonight will be the first of two open evenings that I intend on taking my ds to, we need to choose him a secondary school and there are two within a viable distance.
So my exp (ds' dad) rings me today and says I don't know what your thoughts are on the open evening tonight but I thought I would pick ds up and take him.
I'm like woah woah hang on a minute did you not think I would want to go? He says well I don't know!
Ofc I want to bloody go!!!! And then he says well I think my mum wants to tag along too, to which i reply no offence but I would prefer it if your mum stayed at home it has nothing to do with her and I would prefer not to have her input on it, the same apples for my own mother or any other extended family member to be honest!
I want this to be a decision between ds, exp and I is that unreasonable? I have suggested that maybe we could pick her up a prospectus or something.
And I'm sure the open evening will be busy enough without every child bring granny along too,
She has interfered with my decisions in the past and told me what she thinks is best etc etc ( even knocked on my door late at night to tell me what she thinks if i havent answered the phone to her!) usually to benefit her son (ds dad) so maybe I'm holding that against her, iv also recently found out I'm pregnant so maybe being over sensitive at the thought of trawling round a school with exp and exmil??
What should I do let her come or put my foot down and say no sorry??
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Is it normal for open evenings??? Sorry quite long
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Missmuffet28 · 20/09/2012 13:44
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