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Interesting thread has now become a bit sadder - really hope things work out in pannetone's favour - the new head does have a lot to answer for!
Amazing how change at the top can change things for the worse.

We have had/are having a very bad experience with the new head at Olaves. The school was brilliant for our eldest DS - he left just before the new head arrived. At that point DS2 went into the sixth form (having been at Olaves since 11). DS2, whilst just as intelligent as his brother, has SEN and we feel that the school has failed to meet these. Then having badly underperformed in his AS exams (though we were told he was on target) they wanted DS to go elsewhere. Cue continuing battle and forthcoming discrimination case. We have found the Head unwilling to address our complaint, and although a governing body appeal panel found in our favour, the Head has declined to follow its recommendations.

Sadly the focus of the School does now seem to be entirely on results and league table position. The many excellent staff seem increasingly under pressure just to produce high grades from the students. The atmosphere and ethos of the school have changed so much - and in my opinion, not for the better. We didn't even sit academically able DS3 for the test.

Interesting thread, we did not chose St O for DS for the same reasons as stated above. We wanted a more rounded, holistic educational experience for him.

OP, the two schools you're comparing are miles away from each other. If distance is not an issue, why not also consider Wilsons Grammar (or even Wallingtons). I hear fantastic things about this school and they're way up there along with the likes of St.Olaves, but do it more organically.

I'm pretty sure you are not the only ones - a couple of DS's friends have older siblings at Olaves and what I think is very telling is that in both cases the younger boys are NOT going to the school, one is going to Dartford and one will be trying for Trinity.
I hope everything works out well for your son.

Almost glad someone else has heard the same - sometimes think we are the only parents that question Olaves. Our son did Bexley and Kent 11+and passed - we might enquire if any are taking year 9 intakes but think we are unusual in looking to leave. He isn't struggling just doesn't like the school and with the stories he comes home with we can see why. School is very much reactive when it comes to dealing with issues - planning is definitely not a strong area.
All other grammars apart from Olaves difficult journey but we'll see - if we can't stretch to private (assuming he passes 13+) he might end up staying but that would definitely be the last resort! Would then look at possibility of home schooling.

My son has just taken the Olaves exam and the Kent and Bexley 11+'s. He passed all (got a probably for Olaves) and got over 90% in both the 11+'s.
We have decided not to put Olaves on the CAF form. The feedback we have had is very similar to the above, 'exam factory' being an expression we have heard again and again. The overwhelming message seems to be that results are EVERYTHING and forget it and dont expect the school to help (or care) if your son struggles or needs support in any way.
You dont mention the Kent or Bexley Grammar schools but depending where you are Dartford Grammar for Boys or Judd or Skinners in Kent are certainly worth a look.

Well, look at their Gsce and A level results and the destinations of their boys to Russell group universities. It's not strictly comparable with Olave's because Olave's have girls in the sixth who tend to do better, and trinity is just starting down that route. Also check Igcses v gcses as the former tend to be tougher.

I haven't done this recently so can't advise. I would be surprised if Olave's results weren't superficially better but if Trinity has a good top end range then presumably your question is answered. You might want, as we did, to check the subjects in which each school excels or predominates at A level.

Well, he seems to be thriving.

Thank you it's all really helpful. For DS1 at Trinity...would you still consider it to be academically high. I know it's great that they have all of the other stuff and we want that too but we want to make sure the academia matches?

DS1 is at Trinity and DS2 starts there in September. Obviously I think it's worth the money I don't know anything about St Olaves though so can't compare the two.

Olave's is obviously more selective at this stage and competition is ferocious. If your child is going to sit the exams for both or either I recommend quite a lot of preparatory work and familiarisation.

Get a feel for each. Both will do well for your son.

How do you mean 'Trinity may not be enough'? It's debateable whether any private school warrants the money - it depends what you want to get out of it! Trinity is fantastic for e.g. music but that might not be relevant for your ds. They do offer quite generous bursaries etc, but Olave's is free!

Have you been for a look around either school? That would be my first step. And then why not sit for both and see what happens? Afaik, Olave's sits in September and Trinity in Jan, so nicely spaced and not too exam-intense.

Thank you...I have heard that St Olaves is a bit of an academic factory. Then again, am concerned that Trinity may not be enough. Do you think Trinity warrants the money. I know they offer scholarships and bursaries for some children. Just want to make the right decision and I wonder if giving him a private education, would be a really good start in life as opposed to grammar school.

I know young men at both. Trinity has a broader range academically with some super stars, is brilliant musically and plays football as well as rugger.

Olave's very good academically and also a wide range of activities though the young men I know there do lots out of school.

Both produce very nice able young men. Feel free to pm me if you want, though am neither a teacher nor a parent.

My son is academic without a doubt...trying to decide whether to sit him for St Olaves or Trinity Independent School in Shirley. Does anyone have any opinions from first hand experience or know of someone at either school.