DS is 15, becoming a 'problem' at school. Has potential to do well, but is driving his teachers to despair. His work, when he does it, is usually the bare minimum and he has bad relationships with teachers who he feels are petty with him. I've just had an email from the deputy head to say he walked out of detention yesterday and will be seeing her after school today.
He has plenty of friends, and bizarrely likes going to school. When we talk about the effect of his actions on his choices for sixth form he gets really angry and questions my faith in him.
I think he needs some objective help to organise himself and get some goals in place. How can I get this for him? I have suggested to his school that he should see a study skills counsellor who might be able to find out what's causing him to be so stuck, but they put him on report instead.
Any ideas? We do have a good relationship, although I occasionally blow my top. He gets punished fairly with sanctions and rewarded for success.
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mayaswell · 26/04/2012 14:04
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