Would love some advice from those who are a few years down the secondary school line with this dilemma
ds got our first choice (all boys', grammar style school with outstanding ofsteds and great results)
ds's first choice was a really wonderful new mixed comprehensive with a lovely , ambitious head and a mission for everyone's potential to be reached etc etc.
ds hated the former and loves the latter. His mates are going to the former. dh loves the former for all the usual reasons. I loved the latter but suspect his academic achievements at the grammar style school would be better.
But he's a middle of the class kind of child and I think the old style academic rigour will raise his game and potentially lead to great results. The other school is more 'him' but he won't get the same grades but I suspect will be happier potentially, he's not a massively competitive child any way nor does he want to be....
If I try I might be able to put his name down for the comp and hope for a place.
How important is his view in the long run? He lives in the present and I think once he has mates and settles in the boys school he may well love it. I just don't know whether to pursue a place at the other school in case we could get one.
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wonderful comp versus outstanding all boys, old school, grammar style school
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mrsjavierbardem · 04/03/2012 23:32
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