Hi all,
DS has been going through a really tough time lately as one of his friends passed away early this year but the grieving didn't hit him until late August early September. Went to speak to his teacher as for the past 2 months he's been unconsolable, constantly complaining of tummy ache when bedtime approaches, hasn't been sleeping well, constantly sleep walks and is terrified he's going to pass away. He went to see a councillor and things started to improve.
So far he's sat two grammar school exams and the first was good news but received news of the second this Saturday which wasn't as good. He missed out by 4 point but I'm so proud of him. I wasn't sure whether to tell him or not as I was worried he'd relapse but decided that he should know as a few other children in his class also sat the exam.
He was really upset by the news and started crying and being really hard on himself despite my DH and I re-assuring him and stating we were very proud of him. He seemed to improve as the day went on but last night was awful. His tummy hurt all night, he didn't get any sleep whatsoever and he's now talking about death again and how scared he is. He also didn't want to go into school today as he didn't want to have to tell the other boys that he didn't make it in fear they would tease him. I just felt like crying when I left him at the school gate.
I'm beside myself with worry and don't know what to do anymore. I feel so bad putting him through this all and starting to think that maybe I should pull him out of his last entrance exam. I just really don't know what to do anymore. Would be grateful for any advice.
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mumwithtwokids · 17/10/2011 10:24
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