The poor child (11) says everyone in school mocks her, ignores her, avoids her. She was just beginning to feel OK about secondary too.
She had someone to sit next to on the bus to and from, until just before Easter, so she was enjoying the journey which in turn helped her to relax once she was at school.
Just before Easter, this boy wrote her a letter - pretending it was from another boy - declaring his adoration of her, but also using very inappropriate language and imagery. It make her feel sick and embarrassed and disgusted. She told her tutor who told his tutor and he was kept in at break times for the last week and kicked off the school council.
It seems that as a result of this, everyone is blaming her. He was a popular boy, in Year 8, so had been at the school longer than her and was better known.
I thought it would have blown over and been forgotten by most of them by the time the hols were over; it would appear not.
DD is crying in her room; she has been weeping on my shoulder since she got home, but I can say nothing to make her feel better. She sways she has been shunned all day.
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My dd thinks she's hateful and horrible
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Jux · 26/04/2011 17:25
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