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Wondering which would be best for academically very bright DD, liked the family feel of Dunottar - being a smaller school, but would the Grammar push her more academically? not particularly worried about single sex/mixed.
Completely agree everyone is entitled to their opinion . I did visit a few years back when considering secondary and decided against it, for all sorts of reasons tbh. Perhaps it just reminded me too much of my own experience ! I have posted on another that I know of girls/families who have been happy there.