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How old we're you when you lost your big V

(140 Posts)
Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 20:39:16

I was 14 and when I look back now I was soo young but thought I knew everything, lasted 2 minutes and really not all it was cracked up to be. Has anyone got any horror stories about their first time they would like to share :-)

supadupapupascupa Mon 10-Feb-14 20:40:00

14. no horror story :-)

AcaciaBeez Mon 10-Feb-14 20:40:17

16
I don't know why but I didn't really talk about it with my friends at the time and don't know if that's early late or normal!

18, led a sheltered life!

yegodsandlittlefishes Mon 10-Feb-14 20:45:10

20

tilliebob Mon 10-Feb-14 20:45:26

16, to my boyfriend of over a year. Now my husband of over 20 years. I had a really wild youth.....wink

17, in a tent, on a school trip...

HairyGrotter Mon 10-Feb-14 20:47:17

16, although I was groomed. This was understood to be the case many years later, but it was a 'nice' experience as far as losing virginity goes, at the time! Ha

randomfemale Mon 10-Feb-14 20:47:37

19 and I was in love - no horror story unless you can count the blush about the bloody sheets.

Worriedkat Mon 10-Feb-14 20:47:43

Just 17 like the magazine of the same era

itsbetterthanabox Mon 10-Feb-14 20:47:48

17 and I'd been with my bf for a year. He's my fiancé now smile

Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 20:48:48

Tilliebob- that's lovely :-)

Neeliethere Mon 10-Feb-14 20:50:21

16 and it was planned to happen on my 16th Birthday. I realise now that I was probably groomed too. He was about 4 years older than me. It wasn't too good though.

tilliebob Mon 10-Feb-14 20:52:24

Cheers Flowery - I usually get a load of negativity and "ooh imagine only being with one person" guff from people who tend to be trying to convince themselves rather than offending me. I had no idea we'd still be together all these years later at the time, it's just the way life happened!

IsTheGrassGreener Mon 10-Feb-14 20:52:30

21. Have always been very shy. No horror stories to tell, except that at age 17 I was sexually assaulted and nearly raped by a guy I shared a tent with for the night (against my wishes, no alternative).

NaffOrf Mon 10-Feb-14 20:53:16

15. As was he. I was in lurrve. We were together for two years. He was luffly.

Gileswithachainsaw Mon 10-Feb-14 20:54:20

18. ONS blush hurt like hell

Busybusybust Mon 10-Feb-14 20:54:33

19 and I married him, and stayed (mostly) happily until he died 24 years later!

ItStillLooksLikeRainDear Mon 10-Feb-14 20:54:36

21, and 19 years later we're still together. 16 years married with 2 DC.

Lastofthepodpeople Mon 10-Feb-14 20:54:47

17. It was quite painful (but consensual), and I remember thinking quite clearly afterwards: well, I'm not going to do that again

HeyMicky Mon 10-Feb-14 20:55:59

18. To an American marine while I was backpacking in Italy smug

Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 20:57:12

It didn't hurt too much and only bled a little, realising how young I actually was reading the comments :-/

Finabhear Mon 10-Feb-14 20:57:43

19 he was beautiful and I was in love. It was fun smile

Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 20:58:07

Heymicky - sounds like a film...

TheMumsRush Mon 10-Feb-14 20:58:16

17 and in love with my then bf, still friends with him now smile

expatinscotland Mon 10-Feb-14 20:58:29

16. No horror story, it was great!

14. It hurt and I didn't have a clue what was going on.
Next time a year later with lovely bf was much better!

Iwillorderthefood Mon 10-Feb-14 20:58:58

17 very close to 18. It was great. No pressure whatsoever despite the fact he was 7 years older than me. He waited for me until I was absolutely ready. We were together for two and a half years or so.

newestbridearound Mon 10-Feb-14 21:00:27

22. I suffered very badly with vaginismus for a long time so the decision was taken out of my hands until then really, but as it turns out I'm glad I waited as it was with my now DH.

claraschu Mon 10-Feb-14 21:01:02

24, with my future husband and I just realised we have been together 24 years now.

dementedma Mon 10-Feb-14 21:03:08

21.
Wasn't much fun.

16 and it really hurt! I remember thinking he must be doing it wrong! grin

hootloop Mon 10-Feb-14 21:04:22

15, I was very happy about it, it was lovely and I look back on it fondly. Sadly it wasn't with DH, he was my second. That is my only possible regret about it.

DakotaFanny Mon 10-Feb-14 21:04:38

16. Shouldn't have bothered! He made me go on top- terrible introduction to sex for someone who is not body-confident. Pppfffftttt!!!

ChrisMooseMickey Mon 10-Feb-14 21:07:39

18, to an english marine wink

Hung like donkey and it really hurtcat first. Second time wad much better! Sadly he turned out to be abit of a dick, but I dont regret it and I never will!

ethelb Mon 10-Feb-14 21:09:57

17.

fifi669 Mon 10-Feb-14 21:10:32

14 to a bit of a prick. He was 17 and I thought he really liked me, but after a few jumps he went off with someone else.

Eminybob Mon 10-Feb-14 21:11:36

15 as was he. It was very planned we had to bunk off school to make sure we were alone and I still had my uniform on while doing it blush It's was pretty rubbish, we only did it twice in total and broke up not long after. I still think about him fondly though.

Daisypops Mon 10-Feb-14 21:11:39

19. To the love of my life who I left five years later sad

whitwoo89 Mon 10-Feb-14 21:15:17

22 to my dp. Two years later and I'm so glad it was with him. X

StrawberryCheese Mon 10-Feb-14 21:15:19

17 to my first love. It was great but I came back from the toilet to find him chatting on the phone to his mates. He sent a text message to all of them to let them know he had done the deed. I should have realised he was a dick there and then but I was young and stupid and stayed with him for 18 months.

MairzyDoats Mon 10-Feb-14 21:15:50

15 and I was pressured into it. He's a knob now too. I had a pregnancy scare and I get cold shivers now thinking about how I could have completely screwed up my life.

pointythings Mon 10-Feb-14 21:23:30

19, to my first bf - he was lovely, but older than me and ready to settle down whereas I had just started uni and wanted my wild years. He was kind, patient and made sure it was good for me though and I will always be grateful to him. My DPs still see him regularly, he is a lovely guy.

16, a threesome, was brilliant

neiljames77 Mon 10-Feb-14 21:26:02

15. Could have lost it at 12 but lost my bottle instead.

nouvellevag Mon 10-Feb-14 21:31:57

18. The only exciting part was that we did it in a graveyard which I felt boosted my goth credentials. The bloke and the sex were both very dull.

Didn't hurt at all but then my hymen had been mangled years earlier during some energetic mountain biking.

Beamur Mon 10-Feb-14 21:34:50

I was 20 and probably about the last virgin in my Uni year. I did feel as if I needed to get on with it! My bf loved me from afar for sometime before I succumbed and we were together for several years. It wasn't great sex but it was the right person at the right time.

Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 21:35:59

Noarm a THREESOmE for your first time, how did that happen - please tell (hmm)

Trinpy Mon 10-Feb-14 21:36:47

16. To my first boyfriend. I don't think either of us were ready, it only happened because of a misunderstanding. It wasn't great but it was at least in a bed to someone I cared about, which is better than a lot of people manage.

Velve Mon 10-Feb-14 21:40:08

19, and loved every single second of it. Definitely no horror story here.

SomethingkindaOod Mon 10-Feb-14 21:41:41

My 18th birthday. Lucky for him I had nothing to compare it to. He was still crap at it 18 months later when I saw sense (for other reasons, he was emotionally and physically abusive) and dumped him. He's still a twat 20 years later...

Iamashambles69 Mon 10-Feb-14 21:41:45

18, and my minge clamped him in a vice like grip! Vaginitis I think it's called, we got over it and were together for four years.

GinUtero Mon 10-Feb-14 21:45:51

16, to my first boyfriend, on the day after I finished school - to do it while I was still school uniform age felt weird to me. He was two years older than me and we had been together since I was 14. He was lovely and respectful and never put any pressure on me, so it wasn't a bad experience in that sense, but the main reason why he hadn't been in any rush was because he was a born again Christian and had major hang ups about sex before marriage - rather than spending the aftermath of our first time loved up together, he spent it atoning to the Pastor for his sins!!! Needless to say, we didn't last much longer after that…20 years on and I'm still living in sin with my gorgeous DP, whereas he's married to a "naice" Christian woman who spends all day embroidering tapestries with Bible passages on them and baking cupcakes with crucifix piping...

OvertiredandConfused Mon 10-Feb-14 22:08:25

16. Regret who it was with - he was a knob who I can see groomed me for about 9 months.

Innogen Mon 10-Feb-14 22:11:08

15. It was perfect.

TheBigBumTheory Mon 10-Feb-14 22:11:09

Llama

Vaginissmus

Vaginitis is just inflammation gringrin

Janorisa Mon 10-Feb-14 22:12:51

23...I was so shy...

Jbck Mon 10-Feb-14 22:15:16

18, bit crap and didn't get much better for the next few months I saw him. Next one was much better.

Iamashambles69 Mon 10-Feb-14 22:18:45

TheBigBumTheory

Thanks, am 45, should really know that by now!

Hormonalhell Mon 10-Feb-14 22:18:58

17 although I did a bit of didgery pokery when I was 14 with a lad I was with a year but not full on sex shock

mrssmith79 Mon 10-Feb-14 22:19:11

13, school trip to glamorous Ostend.

jayho Mon 10-Feb-14 22:21:28

15 (and a half) together since 11 blush natural progression, he was killed in bike crash at 17, no one els til 19

SamU2 Mon 10-Feb-14 22:21:57

16 I think.

I say I think because I think it was only the end that touched me hmm hey it was cold and we were on a bench, I couldn't feel anything. He was my first love.

Properly, closer to 17 I guess.

Skiingmaniac Mon 10-Feb-14 22:22:14

24 blush

Both 18, still at school, very sweet. Still friends now.

sweetkitty Mon 10-Feb-14 22:34:24

19 to my first love and we've been together for 19 years now.

I was about of a wild child back then drank loads, took drugs, kisses loads of boys but never went all the way.

jayho Mon 10-Feb-14 22:34:42

should add, it was lovely and planned, contraception, the works, can still, very happily remember the aftermath of holding each other and laughing. and then making love for us not because it was a teen age box to tick and looking at each other and realising that it was a big deal and getting the emotion of it and then it was private and then I lost him

14! We were together until I was 17, lovely person.

ScottishPies Mon 10-Feb-14 22:50:57

19 with my first bf, we were together for 5yrs. The sex was great throughout the 5yrs - i thought it would be like this with everyone but unfortunately it wasn't. Only one other person came close. I suppose it was because we were young and in love. It ended very messily, I was heart broken, went a little bonkers for a while and he had panic attacks. Took me years to get over it. Never had my heart broken to that extent, until now ... but thats another story for another thread!

Dirtybadger Mon 10-Feb-14 23:03:59

With a "man"- 14. Think he was 15. All fine. Waited a couple of months and relationship lasted another 4/5 months after. With a woman- still waiting.

elQuintoConyo Mon 10-Feb-14 23:13:22

I was 23, bf was 25. Lost our virginity to each other.
We are now married with toddler, 16 years later grin

TheArticFunky Mon 10-Feb-14 23:17:54

It worries me when people say they bled and it hurt. That wasn't my experience at all, the first time was no more uncomfortable than the 200th time. Is there something wrong with me?

expatinscotland Mon 10-Feb-14 23:18:39

Oh, Dirty, I didn't even consider that, as all my, erm, I've only ever been with men wink.

He was 23 and my French host brother. He took his time and wow, he was amazing! I'm glad it was him after hearing so many other stories over the years. I chose him and am glad I did.

We are still friends, both married with children.

You'd never know it from looking at him but, man, he was a luvah.

TheScience Mon 10-Feb-14 23:19:37

TheArtic - it probably just means you split your hymen at some point earlier in childhood.

expatinscotland Mon 10-Feb-14 23:22:17

I didn't bleed, Arctic, but I had been in ballet from the time I was 3 and quite flexible. It 'hurt' in a sort of stretchy way the first time, and my poor inner thighs had sort of spasm for a short whilst after, but it wasn't bad at all.

MumsKnitter Mon 10-Feb-14 23:23:49

Well I didn't pick the best way to lose it. I was 15, it was 1976 and I was in Montreal during the Olympics, and I just decided I wanted to dump my virginity so's I could have the possibility of more casual sex with a boyfriend I didn't yet have. For some reason I wasn't keen on offering up my flower like it was a big thing.

So I set off with a mate to pick up a random, and ended up losing it to a creep called Tommy who was a 30 year old school P.E. teacher. Given that I was totally flat chested and looked about 12...

I've long since realised that that was not the best idea, and am very happy that my daughters were much more sensible.

TheOnlySeven Mon 10-Feb-14 23:24:03

16, he was my ex-boyfriends brother blush

Mrswellyboot Mon 10-Feb-14 23:27:25

Nearly 19

Regretted it. Was romantic but the wrong person. Parents found out and gave me loads of grief. Dad called me a tart. I was mortified.

Erm... a bit younger than you lot... oh dear! blush

It was great though, only calmed down with my now DH at 21, bit of a rampant rabbit having a grand old time until him tbh! grin

CheerfulYank Mon 10-Feb-14 23:47:41

19, was terrible.

sykadelic15 Mon 10-Feb-14 23:54:27

18. No blood or anything (broke my hymen years prior in a schoolyard accident ... oh the pain then!). He claimed i didn't tell him I was a virgin... obviously saying "It's my first time" multiple times is SO confusing. Nothing to write home about... just a "get it done" situation.

I had just turned 17, with someone I didn't know very well at a house party. blush we did get together and stayed together for about 18 months as a result.

LosingItSlowly Tue 11-Feb-14 00:23:02

Discounting childhood non-consensual stuff, I was 21 when first became an active participant, with a 58 year old (because I didn't know how to say no yet). confused

Regret it a lot, felt used/dirty, and the guy was a jerk. Had better times since then thankfully. smile

Mrswellyboot Tue 11-Feb-14 00:30:46

Ah losing it, you have been through too much. sad good to hear that things are better now.

LadyFlumpalot Tue 11-Feb-14 00:39:11

20. Was shit. Wish I'd waited.

LosingItSlowly Tue 11-Feb-14 00:41:51

Thanks Mrswellyboot smile

Nancery Tue 11-Feb-14 00:51:28

Another 14 (but nearly 15!) here too. Now I'm the ripe old age of 39 I think this is awful, FAR too young, but at the time we'd been together nearly a year and luffed each other.
It was on a stage too blush to the sound of my stepsister trying to play Chopsticks on a piano....

Notafoodbabyanymore Tue 11-Feb-14 01:05:21

26 to my husband on our wedding night. Glad I waited, but first time was very painful - I screamed like a banshee, but when he repeatedly asked if he should stop, I shouted (half laughing) "no, just do it!"

We still laugh about it now. Even though it hurt, I loved it.

18 anf drunken ONS ... Set a pattern for the next few years unfortunately!

14, with my BF. We'd been together about 4 months IIRC, we stayed together a year. It was within a loving relationship with someone my age

No regrets.

LettertoHermioneGranger Tue 11-Feb-14 04:03:39

19, after being with the boyfriend a year. Regret it immensely, it was terrible. Relationship ended soon after and met now-DP within 6 months. Our first time together was amazing, he was so romantic and caring and it was a wonderful experience. It probably hurt more initially than the first time had, as DP, er, has a lot more to him than exbf had, but he took such care to be gentle and attentive it was better than any one time with exbf (which were often painful, not for size reasons).

I really, truly wish I had waited until I found DP. I felt like I 'had to' lose it when I did, even though I knew the relationship wouldn't last. I didn't know what being in love really was until I met DP, or even true desire. I barely waited a week with DP, it never would have taken a year to 'work up' to it, I didn't realize how right it would feel when I did find the right person.

Kiwiinkits Tue 11-Feb-14 04:24:45

14 on Guy Fawkes night. He was my boyfriend. Was underwhelming but no regrets.

bragmatic Tue 11-Feb-14 06:55:49

16. He was a nice boy. Probably still is. Glad I didn't wait for DP, we met when I was 31!

Lozcat86 Tue 11-Feb-14 07:06:40

21 with someone I'd met on a plane on the way back from a work experience trip to Oz. We went out to the movies day after we got back and had sex in his car in the woods - comfy! hmm we saw each other for a few months but it was just a sex thing for him. Then got with my now DH been together 5 years married for 1 and have a beautiful 15 week old DD.

Bumbolina Tue 11-Feb-14 07:21:30

18. Club 18-30s rep. Was fun but wish I'd waited for something special rather than fun.

Sweetpea33 Tue 11-Feb-14 08:51:07

13 unfortunately, with a 17 year old and I just thought I should as 'everyone else' was doing it! Hurt so much that I 'bucked him off' after a few seconds. Next time I was 16 and it was with a 'proper' long term boyfriend - loads better.

Sweetpea33 Tue 11-Feb-14 08:56:25

Oh - and it was in a garden shed!

nulgirl Tue 11-Feb-14 08:59:39

14 with my first love. He was gorgeous, kind and adored me. I have no regrets except the fact that I dumped him 6 months later as I thought he was dull and too nice. I should have stayed with him as we were great together and he was worth so much more than the bad boys that I subsequently went out with for the next few years.

LoreleisSecret Tue 11-Feb-14 09:01:41

13 with a really nice guy !

BeetlebumShesAGun Tue 11-Feb-14 09:07:21

15 with a guy I was totally obsessed with, and had dumped my nice caring boyfriend to have a chance with. Straight after he disappeared downstairs for an hour. When I got home the next day it became apparent he had gone downstairs to send me an email dumping me! Learned my lesson!

bopoityboo3 Tue 11-Feb-14 09:09:10

21. on my wedding night it was just about perfect. So glad I waited for DH and didn't do it with one of the many bad boys I dated in my teens.

CaptainHindsight Tue 11-Feb-14 09:16:04

15 with a lovely bf who wanted to wait until i was 16! I practically pounced on him but he insisted we go slowly so I was comfortable. Great 1st experience, he gave me a lot of confidence.

We split when he went to uni and remained long distance email friends for a long time afterwards.

DontGiveAwayTheHomeworld Tue 11-Feb-14 09:29:04

15, with my 16yo boyfriend. It was the first time for both of us. I remember thinking "this is what everyone goes on about? How boring". We broke up a few months later, we just weren't working. He was very sweet though!

Next time was a lot better. I was 16, he was 19 and knew what he was doing grin

Writerwannabe83 Tue 11-Feb-14 09:33:42

16 with my first love. I was 15 when we met, he was a bit older than me at 17. He was happy to wait for me to be ready and to be of age so we did it about 4 months after we started dating. I look back on it very fondly and am very glad I lost it to someone I loved and who was so patient with me.

Suicidal5833 Tue 11-Feb-14 09:47:06

13th birthday to a boy aged 15 I thought he was nice but he abused me for two years.

ItsSoooFluffy Tue 11-Feb-14 09:50:34

Was 17 with my first boyfriend who was 19, he was also a virgin. It wasn't anything special and it did hurt a bit. confused

JeanBodel Tue 11-Feb-14 09:56:13

16

Got honeymoon cystitis afterwards, was quite disconcerted to be pissing blood for days. Couldn't possibly tell my mother but managed a quick peek in the Reader's Digest Family Health Guide which reassured me.

IRCL Tue 11-Feb-14 10:24:56

15 here in horrible circumstances, some my own fault but mostly his. He was 27, stupid ONS outside.

all in all it was a dreadful experience and it is the the thing I regret most in my life.

FolkGirl Tue 11-Feb-14 11:51:34

Nearly 20. He was 39. I didn't fancy him, I didn't particularly like him. He was skinny with a beer gut so he looked like a frog when he was naked.

I was brought up to think I was unloveable and sex was something that men did to women so it seemed futile to wait for someone who 'loved' me and it also seemed best to just get it out of the way so that I at least knew what it was, given I was going to have it done to me at some point anyway.

I didn't hurt, but it was pretty unremarkable.

MoominIsGoingToBeAMumWaitWHAT Tue 11-Feb-14 12:01:59

I was 16, he was older and not a virgin and it was pretty great actually. Well there must've been something good about it because we're still together wink

Noarm a THREESOmE for your first time, how did that happen - please tell (hmm)

I instigated it, it just happened really. It was me and 2 army guys. Was a lot of fun.

magic8balls Tue 11-Feb-14 12:09:53

15 nearly 16. He was 19. I wish I hadn't done it with him because he was rubbish, clearly went for the younger inexperienced girls, he was also a twunt, and dumped me a short while later! Wanker!

Frettchen Tue 11-Feb-14 13:06:27

25. With a good friend who I far-too-quickly fell in love with, then had my heart thoroughly bruised 6 months later when he decided to end it.

Looking back, I think I was his rebound girl. Le sigh...

JingleMyBells Tue 11-Feb-14 13:19:38

15. The little bugger dumped me a week later. My partner on the other hand was 33, I was his first grin

EddieVeddersfoxymop Tue 11-Feb-14 14:54:39

17, been together for a year......now my husband!! Rock'n'roll youth grin

christmashope Tue 11-Feb-14 16:04:54

It was on my 15th birthday with my 15 year old boyfriend. We had met on holiday in Spain in the October, he lived over 500 miles away but came to see me for a holiday for my birthday in the January.
Don't regret it, it wasn't great and hurt a fair bit.
My next boyfriend was a much better experience and I thought ok this is what everyone is talking about lol
Was I too young? Hmm I don't know I was always old for my age and we practiced safe sex.

MirandaWest Tue 11-Feb-14 16:07:47

I was 19. Was with my first boyfriend who became my DH for 12 years.

GilmoursPillow Tue 11-Feb-14 16:45:54

I was 15. It was painful and incredibly unromantic. He was 29. I realise just how wrong it all was now, and just how little control I had over my life then despite thinking I knew it all.

ItsAlmostPerfect Tue 11-Feb-14 17:15:11

17 - with my first boyfriend, who is now seeing my ex best friend.

oldfashionedgirl Tue 11-Feb-14 17:23:57

Still haven't and am now old. sad

knowledgeispower Tue 11-Feb-14 17:35:54

19 ONS...'late bloomer' and terribly shy! How things change ;-)

napoleonsnose Tue 11-Feb-14 17:36:01

16 and was nothing special on a school trip. We were bf and gf for a bit but no great romance. Next, at 18 to a man 10 years older than me. Now that was far more exciting. Sex in all sorts of unusual places! Lost contact but saw him again after 20 years about 4 years ago and wondered what on Earth I had been thinking!

hickorychicken Tue 11-Feb-14 17:44:09

14, ONS was shit. I didnt really enjoy sex until i was nearlly 16, because it was with someone i realllly liked.

ElvisJesusAndCocaCola Tue 11-Feb-14 19:55:14

26.

This may totally put me, but hey.

I suffered from vaginismus, so no sex, even though I'd had a couple of close boyfriends.

Travelling round the world, met a guy on a thai beach. Nice night out. Then he said, no offence, but I don't do it with virgins. What a fucker!

So the next night I went out and met a hot Israeli basketball coach. I told him all about it and we went and got stoned and I lost it with him. A hot Israeli basketball coach. Stoned. On a thai beach.

It was worth the wait grin

DCRbye Tue 11-Feb-14 19:56:16

16. In the sea! Ouch!

NinjaCow Wed 12-Feb-14 00:02:59

15. I liked it, was kinda painful though. I was naive, my boyfriend was anything but.

samesizetoes Wed 12-Feb-14 00:13:20

I was 16, he was 19. On a rugby pitch and the groundsman caught us whilst doing his rounds. blush

fiftyandfab Wed 12-Feb-14 04:05:56

erroneous apostrophe...how very annoying and unworthy of my response <growl>

GuybrushThreepwoodMP Wed 12-Feb-14 13:16:53

17. First boyfriend. Enjoyed it.

halfwildlingwoman Wed 12-Feb-14 13:42:16

Elvis! Jealous.
I should have done it with my best friend and first love, the week before I left for university we spent a night on a mates sofa and did 'everythingbut'.... I really wanted to, but I knew that he didn't love me the way I loved him and I was too scared/romantic to let it be like that. I really regret not doing it with him, he was a lovely lover. We are still friends now, which is pretty special.
It actually happened when I was 19, at the end of my first year at uni. He was a very pretty Irish boy, drunk and couldn't keep it up for very long. Deeply depressing really.

CoffeeChocolateWine Wed 12-Feb-14 13:56:15

I was 19 and it was with my brother's best mate who I had adored for years. We got together eventually and lasted almost a year. First time was ok but not really earth moving. It got better though! He's gay now. Don't think that had anything to do with me though!

kmc1111 Wed 12-Feb-14 14:23:24

15. One time thing with a friend not a boyfriend IYKWIM. It was really, really good. Unfortunately that meant the bar was set high and for the next few years it was just one disappointment after another.

SteveBrucesNose Wed 12-Feb-14 14:23:38

15, at a party, on my friends bed. It was, well, meh. Not very successful.

I believe he's gay too now.

AnneWentworth Wed 12-Feb-14 14:39:10

15, drunk, party crap.

Golferman Wed 12-Feb-14 19:36:15

A mans experience; I was 17 and was a girl at college but I was pretty drunk which rather spoiled it. Three years later took my now wife's virginity, in the shower at the college in Paris she was at for three months.

muddylettuce Wed 12-Feb-14 21:46:58

15, with an on off boyfriend, at Glastonbury '98. It was cold, we were stoned, smelly and muddy but I smile when I remember grin. Ahhhh, to be carefree!

MeltyChocolate Thu 13-Feb-14 01:12:46

I was 12 and it was on 4th July, in Florida. He didn't know my age, i looked older. Way too young and regretted it since

AmazingJumper Thu 13-Feb-14 01:25:03

19. First boyfriend.

HandbagCrazy Thu 13-Feb-14 11:51:43

15 with my first boyfriend. It was ok, painless and sweet. Although he became a nasty bastard after being togther for a year, i dont regret it because sex was one of the only things he was consistently nice about / good at

ephemeralfairy Thu 13-Feb-14 13:15:47

17. I was trying to get rid of it long before that though...

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