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(73 Posts)
kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 08:55:32

Well he dumped me this morning gutted now

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 08:59:51

It would be best to have added this monosyllabic update to your previous monosyllabic thread

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 09:50:32


kotinka Mon 01-Jul-13 09:52:22

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kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 10:04:11

I just feel its me I thought he liked me don't have anything any more I'm sorry to be so upset but only been dating a couple years I know what peeps must think but I liked him .

Break ups are shit but it obviously wasn't meant to be. thanks

kotinka Mon 01-Jul-13 10:54:49

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kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 11:10:04

you kick in the face is three weeks or so ago a bloke id like previously had told his friend that he was gutted that id got some one as he was going to ask me out mabe I should have waited.

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 11:36:19

how old are you ?

Cabrinha Mon 01-Jul-13 11:44:03

Why don't you just ask the other guy out then?

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 12:13:06

I'm over 30 but not had much experience

I'm tempted to we been texting over weekend and spoke on phone

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 12:17:02

Christ alive, you are over 30 ? shock

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 12:17:46

Yeah I am why

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 12:20:59

You come across as about 14yo < shrug >

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 12:23:44

Maybe I do some of us not been that out going in life

lowra Mon 01-Jul-13 12:48:39

AF do you think you are being helpful?

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 12:52:09

lowra, did I give the impression I was trying to be helpful ?

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 13:05:17

I came on as I have no friends and just wanted a bit of support, ive lost a hell of a lot in last year and hoped and on whole I have found support

lowra Mon 01-Jul-13 13:07:38

No, but any other motivation seems a bit off.

mummytolucas411 Mon 01-Jul-13 13:13:33

If you typed properly and it not one long sentence you may get more replies, it gets hard to read!

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 13:17:26

im sorry I didn't meqn to make it hard to read.

Give yourself a bit of time before jumping into something else

TalkativeJim Mon 01-Jul-13 13:36:57

The peeps won't care.

Call the other guy.

Forget this one.

Work on your posts: remember your symphonic form - exposition, development, recapitulation.

kotinka Mon 01-Jul-13 13:37:16

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AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 13:42:46

upset ?

Op has her beady texting eye on the next one already grin

kotinka Mon 01-Jul-13 13:44:05

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AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 13:50:29

indeed grin

MexicanHat Mon 01-Jul-13 13:50:40

Sorry your upset OP - I'm sure you'll be over it in no time, keep busy. Lmao AF you're on form today smile Just saying......

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 13:52:00

I wish OP well, even if I am not being remotely helpful smile

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 13:54:25

you make me sound like some uneducated idiot I have a degree in science, and was just asking for support, maybe I should have known better.

kotinka Mon 01-Jul-13 13:57:16

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AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 13:57:18

oh, give over

CalamityKate Mon 01-Jul-13 14:02:21

A science degree?! Wow.

VanitasVanitatum Mon 01-Jul-13 14:15:48

Wouldn't jump straight back in with the other guy if you still feel strongly for the one you just broke up with, but staying in touch with him can't hurt (the other guy, not your ex!) the guy who broke up with you after one fight obviously wasn't worth it, and unfortunately I guess wasn't that into you, sorry sad

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 14:32:08

yeah bsc in science nursing studies , not using phone l top playing up

AF I have a level in eng lit , btec in child care studys so im not stupid only I you count I liked some one to much.

not rushing into anything I cared a lot about him.

Change2013 Mon 01-Jul-13 14:45:44

AnyFucker you've made me laugh for the first time today. I look forward to your posts so thank you.

Kittykat, sorry for your losses in the last year, I certainly know what that's like. I recommend doing what you can to reflect and learn from each experience.

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 14:46:55

I wasn't disbeleiving your academic qualifications, I was saying "give over" and stop being so silly

This is an anonymous board. I don't even know you, apart from your apparent inability to post about the same subject on the same thread, your assumption that we all know exactly who and what you are talking about without any explanation from you and your teenage ability to immediately bounce back from a dumping and consider texting the next young man giving you the glad eye

fair play to you, you are a much clevererer person than I

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 14:48:21

sorry, than what I am

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 15:02:13

not teen ability AF it was a friend who was concerned something id do for anyone I know.

TalkativeJim Mon 01-Jul-13 15:48:20

Child care studys??!

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 15:53:34

qualified nursery nurse

Doha Mon 01-Jul-13 16:01:10

Qualified nursery nurse-- a wee bit different from a science degree !!--just saying

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 16:08:59

I happen to have a degree in science / nursing and a nursery nursing qualification.

Doha Mon 01-Jul-13 16:32:46

I also happen Kittykat to have the same degree and l also have an MSc but l would never say l have a degree in Science hmm

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 16:35:56

that what it says on my degree paper im sorry if I have offended anyone

lowra Mon 01-Jul-13 16:39:57

What an odd thread confused

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 16:45:53

yeah it kinda got changed sorry folks x

Brodicea Mon 01-Jul-13 16:49:35

Jeesus, leave kitty alone: if you find her threads hard to read then don't read them!

Bravo for spotting grammatical errors, here is a gold star: plllp.

lowra Mon 01-Jul-13 16:52:58

I wasn't having a go. I actually defended kitty before. I was just commenting on how weird the thread was. Mainly due to people picking kitty apart I might add.

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 17:04:25

please I don't want to cause any fights been upset enough today, maybe I am immature for my age I think that was the implication earlier but after eating my boy weight in lasagne eariler I cant face checking and yes I am in many way .
I wont say it was a sheltred up bringing but I ant open to family but with my 1st bf I didnt tell them until wed dated 4 months , this one I did and now have to say its over.
yes im still living at home well its not home its my mums as I cant afford to move out although id love to, last year id saved enough for a small deposit but due to a so called mistake I lost my job flat and the deposit but I guess life goes on,

well wen i stop crying

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 17:06:15

sorry spelling crap , blame wine , lasagne ad tears plus crap pc !

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 17:18:40

lowra, you seriously think the only strange thing about this thread is people's reactions to it ?

HeySoulSister Mon 01-Jul-13 17:23:24

Does it matter? This is almost like bullying

LineRunner Mon 01-Jul-13 17:24:58

OP I would call the other guy but take it very, very slowly.

lowra Mon 01-Jul-13 17:28:32

I think the whole thing is weird and noone is coming off particularly well. In fact I've no idea why I'm posting really. I'm having a shit day and not looking for an argument so I'll bow out. Good luck OP.

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 17:34:28

the other guy to far from me I dnt have a job so traveling 12 mile or so too much !

LineRunner Mon 01-Jul-13 17:36:30

Perhaps he could travel to you?

If it wasn't that often, that would mean you would have to take it very, very slowly, as I would advise.

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 17:39:50

we will see x

Onesleeptillwembley Mon 01-Jul-13 17:45:56

I'm with AF on this, and my degree is totally relevant, it's a degree in naughty people though most people would call it criminology.

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 17:48:52

thankyou for making laugh and I was only saying what on the paper

LineRunner Mon 01-Jul-13 17:54:10

He could bring you flowers.

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 18:00:02

who could

LineRunner Mon 01-Jul-13 18:01:50

The guy who lives 12 miles away.

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 18:04:31

never been flowers x

kittykat10 Mon 01-Jul-13 18:05:15

been given I should say

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 18:09:18

Naughty people ? erk...lots of them around. I expect you are never out of a job, wembley

Onesleeptillwembley Mon 01-Jul-13 18:14:50

No, AF, I'll never be out of a job which is bad, but good for me, I suppose. It does make you see things others always don't though.

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 18:16:06

< hides swag behind back >

Peace and love

Onesleeptillwembley Mon 01-Jul-13 20:18:11

PMSL AF I've had my eye on you for a while...................

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 20:22:41

I think Liv has her eye on me too < gulp >

I am not sure who to be most afeared of...

Onesleeptillwembley Mon 01-Jul-13 20:32:54

Oh, definitely the dark powers at MN towers, I like fluffy kittens'n'shit.

AnyFucker Mon 01-Jul-13 20:37:26


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