I've not posted before but I am just at breaking point and don't know what to do...
Have been with partner for 5 years, and to be honest we have had a very turbulent relationship. Massive arguments, often over the most stupid things which just seem to escalate and get totally blown out of proportion.
We both have a child from previous relationships, and a 2 year old together.
We've been to relate to try and solve things - but what I can't get my head round is if the problems we have are down to me (as he always suggests) or whether he is just a total shit to me.
There is so much I could go into but the latest disagreement was Sunday - he was in the other room with his daughter - had spent most of the afternoon watching dvd with her. He came into kitchen where I was with my son and our daughter to get something and I said (jokingly) oh - hello - what's your name?.
Now he totally flipped - in a really aggressive tone started saying "are you with YOUR daughter? Are you - well I'm with mine!) to which my response was bloody hell - it was just a joke).
Anyway - to cut a very long story short - he then walked off and nothing was said but when we went to bed he said what's wrong with you? All I said was that I had been joking and thought the way he spoke to me was unpleasant. Well talk about light the touchpaper - he started yelling that i was always causing arguments etc etc - he's never been in a relationship like it. WTF? well neither have I !!!
Since then he's not spoken to me - had another argument tobight where he said that I had to stop being so argumentative and he could not put up with this any longer!
Sorry it's so long but needed to get this off my chest. Is it me? I am seriously beginning to wonder...
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BooBearsMum · 06/07/2010 22:57
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