I married DH after a whirlwind romance when I was 22 (we'd been together 5months when engaged, married within a few months), then had DD 18months ago when I was 24.
I don't know if having a baby has just thrown our relationship into this mess but I'm so worried I'm not in love with him anymore. As we get older (he's 2 years older than me), I feel I've changed so much and while he has too, it's more in the direction of laziness and solitariness....he just wants to watch tv or play on his xbox, doesn't make an effort to stay in touch with friends, comes across as rude a lot of the time. He's also becoming more and more conservative in his views which in turn makes me feel trapped.
I'm rubbish at confrontation, but I don't know what to do. I'm so worried all those people who said it was too soon and I was too young were right, but we have DD to consider now. I chose this relationship and this life, but I'm feeling like I'm seriously outgrowing it, but really don't want to be selfish and throw it away.
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littleearthquakes · 05/07/2010 14:11
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