We are incapable of speaking to each other about our relationship in a calm reasonable manner.
I'm fed up with always being in the wrong, no matter how hard I try. I'm fed up with his mood swings.
It's been a year since we almost split up, I thought we were both trying so hard to make it work but, again, over the last while I feel it's me trying to make it work while he talks to me how he pleases and acts how he wants. I'm always biting my tongue and trying to keep the peace because he says I'm overdramatic and it's always 'oh poor timdi', and I don't want to be that way.
His parents are away this week, and I'd like him to stay at theirs for a few days. I'd like some space to think and breath. I also think it may make him appreciate what he has here if he's away from it. If I suggest this though it will just cause another big fight and he won't do it.
I need a way of being able to ask him to do this that enables us both to stay calm.
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How can I ask him to leave to give us both some space to think.
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TheInvisibleManDidIt · 27/06/2010 18:45
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