At the weekend i told my Hubby, that i didnt want to live with him anymore. there are many reasons but for the past 12 months he as changed, he never talks, i can sit night after night with not 1 word, i have asked if he is ok, suggested he may be depressed, or that he need to stop brininging work home, worrying etc. i was diagnoised last year with ME, and he told me he couldnt cope with it, that made me feel even worse, i have had to try hide my symptoms, i have gone back to work(reduced hours) my only way of coping is that at weekends he does more with the kids. he isa a good man, good dad, but i dont love him anymore , he as pushed me away.
my problem is this. my family live 100 miles away.his family and friends all live near by, i have got no where to go other than home. but i dont want to take the kids away from him. i thought by staying here and finding s flat to move into would be the right thing to do , but in the mean time i asked if he could go stay with family and give me space. he went, i have been bombarded by texts, he rings and last night he came back said its his home.i get that but the only place i can go is 100 miles away (which is actually the very place i really wnat to be!!)
please does anyone have any advice. i want to go home, but i thought i was been fair by staying.....i am so torn and so unhappy
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belleshell · 23/06/2010 07:09
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