How to get my libido back?!

[Koogers]

Hiya, my ds is now 7 weeks old and physically I feel back to normal. My sex drive however has completely disappeared and I have no idea how to get it back! Any suggestions??

[NinaJane]

Google Literotica and read the stories.

[ColdBunny]

7 weeks is quite a short time, so I would wait a bit longer before worrying about it. You are probably just too tired to even think about it.

[GirlWithTheMouseyHair]

my libido has taken a nose dive since DS was born 19months ago....still enjoy it and back to having sex probably 4-5times a week but I have a feeling it will be a long long time if ever that we get back to how we were. I'm just not as bothered anymore, which is depressing

[SoBloodyTired]

7 weeks is like a blink. It will come back, but it will take time. You're still a bundle of hormones and tiredness!

[Jamieandhismagictorch]

Erotica, and making sure you are being emotionally and physically supported.

[Jamieandhismagictorch]

not physically , practically

[Jamieandhismagictorch]

Oh, and I agree 7 weeks is really early days. Don't put pressure on yourself, or allow anyone else to put pressure on you

[TDiddy]

If you can, try playing sport (squash, tennis, badminton, running, walking) ideally with DH as it will help bonding. You will sleep better and benefit from endorphins

[hippetyhoppety]

Sorry to butt in but "girlwiththemouseyhair" Seriously..... 4 to 5 times a week, and that's you're low libido!!!! Good god I wish I had a low libido like yours, I'm 2 to 3 times a month!!! What on earth is a normal sex life to you?

Thank you, but 7 weeks is very soon. If you're attracted to your partner, then it'll come back naturally, but I also agree with erotic fiction, it makes for a very interesting read.