Okay, not sure if I should be posting here or AIBU ? trying here first?
Saturday DH?s birthday drinks, ex girlfriend invites herself (she?s visiting from overseas for a while). Not too much of a problem, she is friends with all his friends and has been for years. She wants to meet me and the kids etc. She arrives, all okay chatting - nice. Anyway she?d made him a card for his birthday? quite an elaborate card, which included pictures of them on holiday together. And DH with her parents at a party? and some other ones.
She also spent most of the evening reminiscing about their time together, how she must of done the ?ground work? because of how he is with me and telling me how nervous she was at meeting me because she was so horrible to him. Oh, and it?s nice that DH has met a ?nice girl?? At the time, I?d had a glass or two of vino, so I just laughed and thought it was okay, light hearted banter, you know ? but the next day it started to bother me.
DH says she?s a loon but to be honest I feel a bit violated and I?d like him to validate my feelings of ?yeah, she?s nice and all that ? but a hand made card with glitter and photo?s of you two together on holiday; isn?t that a bit odd and totally inappropriate???
Now, am I being totally weird for thinking this is a bit weird or is this weird?
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flooziesusie · 21/06/2010 15:05
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