We have been together 7 years and married for 2.
He has been in and out of work including 2 9 month stints of unemployment, which, if you ask him about, have been erased from his memory.
He has been training as a teacher for 9 months and prior to that did 18 months as a TA earning no money.
He has applied for 4 (NOT ENOUGH) jobs nearing the end of this course and already got the first rejection.
I am sick of carrying this man. All he does is make a mess of my house and wind up our DS before bedtime.
I am 18 weeks pg with second baby. I got pregnant despite knowing that DH is doing my head in because I wnat another baby and I want my baby to have DH's family (who I love).
I feel that if he does not get a job then there is no purpose to him. If i have to go back to work when the new baby is 8 weeks old then I might as well be on my own as he does nothing for me and makes no contribution at all.
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