Had a few to drink so please excuse any typos. Ill try to be brief. Basically last week I discovered DP had been messaging a "blast from the past" via facebook. Nothing incriminating about the messages BUT he has neglected to mention me to this girl, despite obvious provokation, i.e "so, where are you living now?" and described himself as divorced etc. Basically acted as if nothing ever happened after his marriage breakdown and not only that but he hid all these msgs from me and even went as far as to shut down the laptop and tell the girl he was ghaving internet probs when I walked in the roonm,.
So - big row, I threaten, he promises blah blah blah...#
Gist of it is trhat i say I do not mind him messaging said girl, but he needs to stop sneaking around and lying about it etc. He agrees and tells me he WILL keep messaging her, but will be more open etc.
Since then he has NOT been on facebook AT ALL. Tonight I said to him "are you not going to msg her back?" (as last msg was outling cancer trouble) and he said "yes, but not now"
So my question is, why - - - before I knew he was msging her every day, more than once a day --- as soon as I find out he can no longer be arsed to contact her??? Especially funny about going on facebook whilst I'm around?
He says Im being paranoid. Am I?
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YouSmellFunny · 10/06/2010 23:15
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