DH and i have just had another row over such silly things.
I have been really busy today, washing, hoovering, tidying the nursery top to bottom, walking the dog, cooking three fresh meals, and then started to hang curtains that need shortening but DS got in the way so when DH came home i said would you take over with DS so i can get these curtains done please.
After much moaning he agreed.
10 mins later i shout down 'sorry babe but would you chuck up the pins please?'
In between doing this i am heating his tea, i run down to serve it, he opens the dishwasher and says 'oh great this hasn't even been emptied'
I say sorry i've been busy but you could do it if it's a real problem, he says 'oh great i come in and all i want to do is sit down not get up to throw pins to you then empty the dishwasher.
I remind him that i'm hardly sitting on my arse.
All hell brakes loose then cos i am really hurt that he never comments on the things i do do just moans about the slightist things i don't do.
I am now sat here in tears working out why i am with him. we only argue over silly things but the rows get huge and happen all the time. I'm not happy and i don't want DS to grow up in a house like this, how long do we carry on like this weve been like it for years and never change even though we say we will.
I'm with him for the wrong reasons, i'm not in love with him, i actually hate him most of the times but he provides security, company and is my sons daddy. i don't want to be a single mum.
I know i blow thimgs out of proportion when we argue but i can't help feeling so hurt by his comments (believe me they happen all the time)
What do i do, i wouldn't even know where to begin if i did decide to seperate from him.
Sorry about long rant.
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nannyjo · 09/08/2005 20:36
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