So whilst on another board (feminism) I started to examine my own meek life, and how it's not what I thought it would be. I now have to make an exit plan. My DH and I don't get on at all, we have different morals and values. In fact he's amoral. He owns shares in a company, the one he works for, this he has got since we were together but not since we got married. I have four dcs, youngest is 18months. We are broke, he earns good money but I cannot get a job as his job requires him to work away and so I'm a bit stuck...no bridging money to get help, iyswim. I love, mostly, staying at home with my dcs and am ready to start my business....just waiting for a couple of go aheads and I'm off. So I think I need to wait until that's off the ground. We have a nice house that we can just about afford. If we split I'm not sure how we could afford two homes, even if I got a job, full time which I would hate.
staying together long term is not an option for me, too much murky water under the bridge, to many lines crossed. I barely recognise myself.
So how do I plan?
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How do I make him leave?
posieparker · 25/05/2010 11:20
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