Am seeing someone, who by his own immision, blows hot and cold.
Its been going on for 18 months now.
He is very single minded and wrapped up in himself - he cant seem to do more than one thing at a time, plus he is quite selfish.
Ive known this from the beginning. Ive accepted this is how it is. This is him, faults and all. We have spoken about it, and i tell him it pisses me off. He appolgises for it, but that is just how he is. Same as i am how i am.
Ultimatley im wondering if its worth me carrying on with this. I know he wont ever change, i accept that and tbh the hot and cold doesnt bother me so much now, as i know if hes cold, it wont be long till hes hot again.
Before people start shouting hes married or whatever, he isnt. i am his girlfriend. ive met his friends etc.
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he blows hot and cold - do i hang around
thereheblows · 24/05/2010 12:04
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