Since I gave birth to my little boy almost 3 months ago, everything has changed, I knew there would be changes, but I really thought that me and my partner could do this and still be a couple.
Since the birth of our child he has been a brilliant dad, and I know he still loves me and I still love him, but we constantly argue like cat and dog, we are only young (18) and when he was drunk he told my quite attractive friend, right in front of me that he thought he was missing out on sleeping with other girls because we have only been with each other, so I told him fine dont sleep in the bed with me if you feel that way and he slept on the sofa bed (in the same room) I feel I was being silly but it really did upset me. He has changed he is not the person he was before and during my pregnancy, he never does anything for me anymore, he goes to work and comes home grumpy moans and goes to bed, we never spend time together and when we get a chance he almost always decides he wants to do something else, for example go to the gym or go on the pc to play his computer games. He doesnt go out alot because neither of us really have mates (they all peed off when they found out about little one) but I am stuck in the house most of the time on my own, and when he comes home all I want is a cuddle, and hes so moody!! And sex is completely out of the picture is this normal, am I worrying about nothing? I just want to be with him,
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sophiejoandbump · 22/05/2010 12:56
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