I'm working through all the grief of finding out a couple of months ago that my husband had been unfaithful to me a year or so earlier, but I've hit a bit of a stumbling block. He says he loves me with all his heart and always has done. I don't believe he does because I don't believe if you feel that strongly about your wife it's possible to spend a couple of months flirting with/texting another woman and then sneak off and have sex with her. Even if you are then filled with horror and don't allow it to happen again.
So is it possible to really love your partner but go off and have sex with another person? (It wasn't a spur of the moment thing; he arranged it) He says it is possible; I say it isn't. Any views?
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catwalker · 09/05/2010 15:00
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