And I am SO POWERFUL that...
I can make P's become angry simply with the expression on my face,or by a gesture imperceptible to the human eye...
I forced my xh to marry me,have dc's and become swamped and trapped by responsibility when he really just wanted a quiet life going out with his mates
I can make my parents feel any feeling I decide
I can make any human being I choose feel any feeling I decide
I can meet the physical,nutritional,financial and emotional needs of 4 dc's ,a baby, 2 dogs - myself - forever and always,easily,gladly and without any support what so ever - because I choose it that way
and because
I am more powerful than any man - and therefore should not be surprised when they quickly become overwhelmed and intimidated by my powers and decide that I am too much for them.......and after all I am only with them out of need ,right?
And so hard that I never need, nor should I expect - or demand - praise ,recognition,hugs ,cuddles or positive feedback of any sort, like ordinary,normal people do
I should be expected to "know" the needs of others and meet them before they are expressed
I should not be surprised if,on failing to do the above,I experience unpleasant consequences - I knew exactly what I was doing ,after all
I WILL SURVIVE - and actually,may well will enjoy a rewarding,satisfying and peaceful life
(-Thanks to Prettylegs and UnlikelyAmazonian--)
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pinemartina · 05/05/2010 05:32
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