I know there are people in much worse situations here but I just need to vent a little...and my friends & family need a break from my ranting so I'm doing it online!
I had been dating someone for around 3 months. Thought it was going well, having a nice time, not desperately serious.
He mentioned he was still in touch with his ex, I told him I didn't want to continue things if he was still seeing (as in sleeping with) his ex. he assured me this was not the case.
I was hmmm but thought no, give the benefit of the doubt.
After a really nice w/e together, I send an affectionate text asking how he's doing and hope he has a nice eve.
Next thing I know, I get a text back from the ex girlfriend advising me that when he's not been with me he's been with her - this while he was there. Actually she sent it from his phone.
So I confronted him and it's been going on all the while.
Nice way to find out
I'm afraid I lost it a bit (so much for dignity and maturity) and called him all the names under the sun.
I know I've had a lucky escape here, how much worse if I'd found out later, but I truly feel gutted. I wasn't in love or anything but I feel so angry and hurt.
How could I have been so bloody stupid! Why didn't I see it coming? What's worse is he doesn't even seem to sorry. Well ok he is sorry..sorry he got found out.
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Janos · 21/04/2010 19:14
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