It is so sad that this post is about to become one of many but my sister discovered a few days ago that her husband of 4 years has been having an affair
We are trying to offer her as much emotional support as possible but would really appreciate your thoughts/support/practical advise.
They have two small children (under the age of 4)and this is not the first time that he he has been unfaithful to her.
At the moment, she is very confused and is not always in the mood to talk things through with us (very understandable).
He has moved out temporarily (at her request) and is staying with a friend nearby. He hasn't expressed any remorse (from what I can gather) and has not been in touch to see how she is. He did pop home briefly yesterday to collect something from the house and spoke to her very briefly but didn't ask how she was or how the children were
At this stage, she just needs more time to think things through and decide what she is going to do but I wondered if you wouldnt mind sharing some advice with us on how we can support her through this.
Also, from a practical point of view, what can she do to try and protect herself and her sons in the event that she decides to leave him.
Is there a way that she could access initial free legal advice? Or financial advice?
Many thanks everyone x
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Advice and support for my lovely sister please, who's husband is having an affair
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3of3 · 19/04/2010 22:19
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