I was trying to send a text from DH's phone and saw a few messages sent and received which I wish I hadn't!
I didn't have long before he snatched it from me but they were clearly from an old flame (the number wasn't saved so no name) and there were a lot of "miss & love you's" and also some sexual references.
I confronted DH and he said this was an ex and they were just fantisies (she lives in another country so no physical cheating going on).
I have looked at his phone records and he has been texting her regularly for a couple of weeks (only goes back that far) and called her once for 15 mins or so.
He doesn't seem to think he has done anything wrong but I feel so betrayed and am finding it hard to trust him now.
Whenever he gets a text my heart starts beating and I feel tears coming to my eyes.
We have only been married for 2.5 yrs and we have a 2yr old DS who adores his daddy.
My DH is from overseas so he would almost certainly leave the country if we were to separate.
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DH has been sending dirty text messages :(
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PDR · 18/04/2010 21:45
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