My husband has a job which comes with a fair amount of influence and responsibility. Lots of single men who do a similar job to him find there are no shortage of women ready to befriend them, loving the power and influence that comes with the job.
Dh travels a bit for his work and went away about 6 months ago. Around 6 months previously, we had been out at a corporate do when it became quite clear that a woman (who does not work in the same company but because in the same field, they would bump into each other often) was coming onto him, while I was right there! Even some of dh's male colleagues commented on how this woman had a reputation for trying to sleep with the men in higher positions in companies.
I was quite surprised that she could be so bold to be like that when I was there.
On this last trip, everyone went out for a meal and this woman got completely drunk. Dh's room just happened to be right next door to the bar in the hotel so when the bar closed, they all (around 20 of them) went to his room for drinks. At about 1am, everyone left but this woman refused to go. Dh's best mate tried to carry her out but she 'passed out' on the couch at which point both dh and his friend (who sounded totally rat arsed) called me because they didn't want to leave her there as both had suspicions about why she was trying to stay in dh's room .
So after a quick chat with both of them, I told them to call her a taxi (via reception) and just splash her face with cold water to see if she was ok and really passed out. I heard nothing else till the next day when dh's best mate tells me the minute they approached her with water, before they splashed it on her, she woke up, said she was joking that she had passed out and had been hoping for some action . I do believe both of them as this sort of thing is v typical for her.
Scroll forward to now and dh has called me today to say that she is basically harrassing him. She is sending emails with quite suggestive comments and being a total nuisance. He has taken her to one side and told her that there will never be anything between them, he is happily married but she will not back off.
What else can he do other than carry on ignoring her? They don't work together but he does have to interact with her for work fairly regularly.
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Why is this women still pursuing my husband? Should I leave well alone?
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HardyHa · 09/04/2010 16:50
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