Hi, wise words of wisdom and honesty requested!!!
I've just written a really long post about how terrible my relationship with my DP is. When I read it I thought whats the point in posting it? I already know what poeple would say if they read it- so I deleted it!!!!The synopsis of my relationship with DP sounds terrible and I guess on the whole it isn't great, but the day-to-day living with DP has been manageable.
What I really want to know it whether there are an mumsnetters out there who live, or have lived in another country and how stressful was/has this been on your relationship?
DP's dream has been to live in France whilst I've been more ambivelant and realistic about the difficulties, especially as neither of us speak french. I've started French lessons and have opened up a french bank account and have been the one to research into the hows of living in france. I'm also the one who has recently received an inheritance which is big enough to use towards any property either here or in france.
So....we've found a propery in france which is everything we would want and we could afford to buy the land (no house on the property) outright with my money and we'd hope to get a mortgage afterwards for the house. We've put in a verbal offer with the owner however I have concerns about how our relationship will fair, especially as its been pretty bumpy this last year since DD was born. If things went terribly wrong I wouldn't be able to live in France on my own- not that I would want to anyway- and I would be afraid of losing all of my inheritance.
I feel that if I expressed my concerns to DP now it would really irrevocably hurt our relationship and I know I shouldn't be feeling this way
Anyone got any advice?
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Can this relationship survive in France? sorry this has turned out long!
Dirtyyurty · 31/03/2010 21:27
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