We have gone from having lots of fun sex several times a week when we first got married to having it once every two weeks if I am lucky. We now have two young children and lots of responsibilities but I never thought our sex life would be affected as much as it has been.
We have now not had sex for almost a month. My DH does not seem to be bothered by this at all. But it is really upsetting me. I feel unattractive, unloved and frustrated. He says he just doesn't feel like it.
He has quite a stressful job at the moment and is working very hard. We haven't really discussed it that much as it is a bit of an emotive issue and it just seems to upset both of us. I don't really know what to do. I just don't want the situation to get worse - I dont want to be in a sexless marriage. I realise love and marriage is about more than just sex - and I really love my DH. I am really unhappy. Has anyone got any good advice. Thanks.
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I want more sex and he doesn't feel like it
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bluebongo · 28/03/2010 21:26
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