If so, how often and how do you react? Would you be surprised, angry, accepting? How do you deal with it?
I ask as was drawn yet again into a "discussion" with ex about how unreasonable I was when married to him. When he went out he never came home till 5 or 6 in the morning sometimes not at all. He usually went out about 4 - 5 time a month. Sometimes he would disappear on 2 or 3 day benders, longest ever was 5 days. He regularly went on holidays by himself or with the lads.
He thought this was acceptable and says I will never meet anyone else unless I learn to accept that this is just what men do. All our arguments were apparently caused by my refusal to accept this. Firstly I do not wish to EVER meet anyone else but I am interested to hear what other men do.
I am asking a lot of questions like this at the moment trying to find some peace with re to my horrible marriage.
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Does your dh/dp ever go out and do a bit of a disappearing act?
thesteelfairy2 · 15/03/2010 18:41
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