I'm meeting a good school friend for lunch, so thinking quickly about what to say. She's absolutely wonderful and what I would call excellent mother material, kind and sensitive, and I've always pictured her having children.
My instant reaction to her asking what to do about her bloke's revelation is that she shouldn't decide never to have a family just to keep him. I want to say that you'll love your children more than any partner, so downtrade if necessary the boyfriend and have children because they'll be even better. I can't say this because it sounds tactless and judgemental, and too self-centred just because that's how I feel about my life.
What would you say to her?
Just popping off to have shower, but really would love to come back to some good advice
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Meeting a good friend who's just said that her boyfriend of 6 months has said that he never wants children. How do I advise her?
ooosabeauta · 13/03/2010 12:16
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