A couple of weeks ago i went away with dd visiting family, dh stayed at home because of work.
While away i suffered a miscarriage so stayed a bit longer at my parents then i would have.
When i got home dh was very pleased to see us and everything was normal. DD was playing with dh´s mobile so i took it off her and went to block the phone when i saw some messages from a woman saying " thanks for sorting the flat out gorgeous, much appreaciated" i dont know this woman.
I didnt say anything to dh as i wanted to see if he got more messages (yes i will probably get flamed for looking at his phone,but what was i supposed to do)
Well he did the next one read " hi gorgeous, you know i only want to be with you" i couldnt read anymore as dh walked in and snatched the phone from me. I asked dh what it was all about and he says it is just some silly teenage girls (THEY are 19) texting him who worked for him (he has own business)
We had an argument about it, he says he was bored while i was away "enjoying" myself at parents and it meant nothing and wont happen again, and now he seems to think everything is back to normal. He has deleted the womans number and there hasnt been anymore texts to my knowledge.
But i feel i cant trust him anymore.
How am i supposed to go back to trusting him?
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Dont know what to do now
dontgiveashite · 09/03/2010 18:03
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.