so I can read more about it?
Likes to make sure that no members of the family have relationships that are not conducted through her.
Always has to have someone to hate within the family. We tend to take it turns to be her bitter enemy, during that time we can do not good whatsoever. Every action, every thought, every word is taken in a negative way and used as proof of how awful we are. Very black and white. You are either "in" or "out". It comes in cycles. While you are "out" details will be passed to the rest of the family and a campaign of hate will be conducted to make sure you are estranged from all other family members.
Offers to help out but does it on her terms. Gets angry if you refuse or change the details or disagree with the help you might need.
Gets angry and cuts you off if you disagree with her or don't take her advice. Will turn up with a present or card on a special occasion and act like nothing has happened after not speaking for months even years.
Tells lies then pretends to be "forgetful". Can't remember the things she said and did if you call her on them.
More than this but just wondered if anyone else could identify with this.
Many thanks.
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