Few days ago I met one of DP's old friends when out drinking with mates, lets call him D. DP was a few hundred miles away for work and we got chatting about him. Mates went off home and as I was having fun, stayed behind with D since we were having a good time catching up with each other.
By the end of the night, we are both very pissed. He kisses me. I ignore it. At chucking out time, I make a beeline for the bus stop. He kisses me again. I tell him firmly no to do it again.
Bus is full so it goes merrily past without letting any body on. D drags me over the taxi rank and comes with me even though he is staying within walking distance of drinking establishment which miles away from where I live. I say that I can get home on my own and he says that he feels he has to get me home safely.
He insists on paying for the taxi even though I have enough cash. I now feel guilty that he has come all this way and offer to call a taxi. He says its alright. I offer him use of the floor in my room (shared house or it would have been the couch). In the house he then tries it on again. I tell him that he either is content to sleep on the floor or I call him a taxi. He takes the floor option. I know nothing else happened.
I just feel really guilty because DP is away and I was feeling lonely and so close to actually thinking 'fuck it' and going for it. I don't think it was my fault. Perhaps I should have said no and left straight away the first time he kissed me rather than ignoring it.
I did tell DP what happened the next morning but obviously didn't tell him that I did enjoy the attention. Now its just eating me up. How can I stop feeling guilty about it?
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ant3nna · 07/03/2010 14:56
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