Hi,
Just after New Year decided after a fall out with DH that we need to separate. Been to relate last Spring and since then and before no change.
Works late, ignores me most of the time apart from a morning and hello when he goes to work and comes back.
Anyhow wanted him to move out to give us some space but refused until Today!
I have not be able to check his mobile phone coz he has kept it locked. This morning managed to see his mobile and emails and there is my face there is was.
A email from a woman saying thank you for the lovely flowers, chocolates, teddy and was saying alot more about how great it was they moonshine ....dont know what that means does anyone and what a hell of a night we had.
So, I have confronted him about and called his mobile after the last 2 months he has been saying things like am I having an affair which I am not or met anyone and he is having a inappropriate relationship legal terms my friend called it when she filed for divorce.
I told him that I will pack his suitcase and he can come and collect it whe the kids are in bed as I dont want them being upset. He then turns up at the house and trys getting in when I sent him this text saying come later when kids asleep. My Son then gets upset and starts crying as we are arguing and put me in a difficult position. I did not want this to happen like this.
If our son wasn't at home I would have punched him in the face or thrown things at him but I had to contain myself.
He said he met her in florida he went there in January and he is not having an affair. Don't believe him.
You don't send flowers, etc (mentioned above) to someone for the sake of it. I have told him he has to leave the house as I have had enough and need some space.
He wants me to be amicable and allow him back in the house tomorrow so we can separate that way and be reasonable. Who does he think I am.
Can I change the locks on the house without getting in to trouble legally girls?
How can I trust him when it now confirms to me he has been playing away from home. All this time my gut instinct the last 10 months have been right.
So cross and upset I can tell you.
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Caught DH out today and wants me to be amicable
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Jade4 · 22/02/2010 20:11
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