feeling really sad and am worried that i may be criticised but here goes..married to a lovely kind man who i met when young - have two children.When met was in my i dont care about money phase - did nt think about it at all.Now i have children I find that i am thinking more of wanting a traditional provider -and i admit -and i wish i didnt feel like this i truly do-that im starting to resent that he is not more of an" alpha male" so that we can have more of a buffer - not worry bout money ,be able to have hols abroad,more treats and to provide for the children when theyare older such as help them with deposit for house etc. im starting to resent his lack of drive to provide this and -please dont go crazy at me - have discovered that deep down - I think that its his job not mine to do this.He works full time for a county council and so do I- we both are educated to degree level but the public service pay is limited!!! .I have tried to make myself not think this way!! I realise that many families are in sameboat- its just that i feel worried about my felings !
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linconlass · 19/02/2010 23:18
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