Dirty talking.......

[sexmad]

sorry I know it's not Friday, but I need to know how one goes about dirty talking.

Have been asked, was encouraged, but it's one thing i'm not sure on how to do but I know he likes it.

it went.....

him..... do you like doing that....(was licking places)
me.... mmmmm..... yea....
him..... why do you like it......
me..... cos it's wrong.....

and well as you can see i'm not good at all at talking slutty am good with actions thou

HELP!

[Bobbiewickham]

I'm great at this!

Doesn't sound much wrong with what you said...perhaps you could have elaborated a bit...

"because it's wrong, and because I like to see you down there, eating pussy and loving it, you dirty...blah blah blah"

I mean, I wouldn't have said "wrong", but each to their own.

Graphic descriptions of what's going on, how it feels and what you'd like next always work. And don't be afraid to call a cock a cock.

HTH!

[sexmad]

thanks, I have said that,

to elaborate.

him... why is it wrong....
me..... cos it tastes good
him... do you like licking my dirty ass

so inexperienced at dirty talking.

what do you mean by graphic descriptions etc?

(were rimming) - god i'm so glad for name changes

[Bobbiewickham]

Dirty ass ??

You'll get ecoli!

I think I'll bow out now and wait for Mal to turn up...

[sexmad]

oh no no sorry it wasn't physically dirty (EWWW) it was clean, but was just the word iycwim.

[Malificence]

Someone say Mal?

Nowt wrong with a bit of rimming, as long as it's me being done

I'm useless at talking dirty, we somehow manage to have utterly filthy sex without saying a word mostly.

I just usually say I'm a dirty little slut and need to be punished.

Sex in the pitch dark, without saying a word can be really hot .

[sexmad]

ok HELP! I can be kinky, I can do most things and enjoy most things, we both LOVE pushing the boundaries, but define filthy for me - what sorts of things are you thinking?

[Bobbiewickham]

Phew, that's all right then!

Just go with a running commentary, tell him he's a bad boy, tell him how huge he is, how you're loving it, etc.

Once you get going it's easy. You'll get over the embarrassment factor when you see the effect it's having.

[Bobbiewickham]

Are you getting off on this, sexmad?

You're not a fourteen year old boy are you?

[sexmad]

good god no, I wish I was - my imagination would be good. lol.

I have an alter ego for sex threads. as SIL uses the boards.

[Bobbiewickham]

Just keep it simple.

[sexmad]

simple? as in.....

[cluckyduck]

'oh you've got such a big ..... Hard ..... Beautiful cock,

simple yet effective.

[sexmad]

ok, I have no issue with rimming but do with saying big hard cock and not wanting to laugh, how do you get over the silly element of it?

[cluckyduck]

Get drunk? I mean it does make losing your inhibitions easier.

Although if you're really this uncomfortable with it all then why are you doing it?

[sexmad]

tbh once I get going i'll be fine it's just starting off.

bottle of wine I think then. hmm....