Told DP i want to split but he will be staying here tonight

[farmvilleaddict]

Thank you to all those who replied to my posts yesterday (feel like there's nothing left to fight for).

DP came home yesterday from work and was acting like nothing has been going on between us. I went to speak to him last ngith - he went down to the bedroom with the laptop because he sensed i was mad at him about something. Really ?

So i told him that it had gotten to the stage where i think it would be best if we both went our separate ways. Blah, blah blah and a half our later he says to me that we have 2 options, carry on the way we are and try to work it out or split up. I told him i'd done option one, over and over again and that i felt i had no choice and have decided i want to split.

So he gets up this morning, offers me a cup of tea and chats away again like nothings happened . I had to ask him if he understood what i had said last night. He said, "yes you might want us to break up". No, I DO want us to break up.

This seemed to come as a shock to him. So then he started to ramble on about how i would never be happy no matter what he'd given me. I asked him to look deep inside and honestly tell me if he believed he gave the relationship his all. I got a blank look in return.

I told him that i believed he was as unhappy as i am in the relationship but that he didn't have the nerve to end it and therefore was pushing me away so i'd eventually do it. To which he responded, "yes" !!!!!!

I'm so annoyed, but yet its made it slightly easier in a way because i always fall at the last hurdle in this kind of thing. I feel sorry for him, or guilty for splitting the family up etc. But in my opinion he has admitted that once again, i've had to do all the leg work.

[GypsyMoth]

so he put up no fight. that must confirm for you its right to split?

well,well done and good luck!! who is moving out...and when?

[farmvilleaddict]

He is moving out tomorrow. Going back to his mums.

I can just imagine my ears will be burning tonight.

No instead of fighting he said he was expecting it, but admitted he waiting until i did it. Coward.

[GypsyMoth]

yes,coward,and a nasty way to go about it...still,its done now

[WhatNoLunchBreak]

Well done, farmvilleaddict! Non-MNetty ((((hugs)))) and best of luck!