Name changed in case anyone knows who I am.
I have been married for 2.5yrs now and been with my DH for about 4 years all together.
DH is driving me nuts..... I love him so so much and would never want to be without him. I wouldn't want my DS to be without his father either.
DH doesn't help me in the house BUT he does pay for a cleaner to come every week.
He doesn't cook, at all. Not even for DS. I mean he'll make him a sandwich but that's about it. I have to prepare everything in advance if I am leaving him alone all day. BUT he does let me spend whatever I want on food/posh pre-prepared deli means, takeaway if I can't be bothered to cook etc.
He doesn't fix things in the house unless I ask a million times (and he is in the trade so knows how!) No BUT to this one really.
He is a very loving father but he is so lazy. He would never take DS out on his own and has to be pestered to go anywhere at the weekends (claiming to be tired from working all week). He just lies on the sofa and watches TV. I have also caught him watching what he wants on TV in the living room and having cartoons on for DS in the kitchen
I hate this and it's driving me mad.
I am sure DS isn't suffering as I do lots with him in the week -
Monday: Nursery
Tuesday: Regular lunch date with my best friend and her DD
Wednesday: Nursery
Thursday: Local playgroup
Friday: Sure Start
My DM also takes DS to various friend's houses/church/park/village events etc.
I know he is tired but I really think he should be making more of an effort.
When I nag him to go out he acts as though I am so unreasonable and just refuses so I either go alone with DS or just stay at home.
I recently had a MC and now DH is on about trying again for another baby and I find myself secretly thinking "why do you even want another baby if you're too lazy to look after the first?"
Sorry this is a bit of a rant. Any thoughts?
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gosssipgirl · 17/01/2010 16:30
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