im 28weeks pg and have been with bf just over a year, i know (not very long) it all did happen fast but def dont regret starting a family !
i can be quite a jealous person anyway but pregnancy has made me feel more insecure about my self and our relationship, i just always check him with everything , like im looking for him to slip up. ( he never has before )
like tonight for a start i went out to see jimmy carr at the oxford theatre was the first time iv been out in ages , felt uneasy about going tbh as didnt know wat bf would get up too , as everytime he goes out i sit at home like the mug waiting all night i hate it !! , so i asked that he could not go out and get bladdered and wait in for me . . . .(probably wrong of me i know ), i text him on the interval , no reply , so called him . .no answer, so then wen i finally get hold of him he says he saw i was ringing but just didnt answer , thought he would text me instead , which in my state of mind justs set my imagination on a wild ride. i come home to him snoring on sofa , i wake him up to go up,and no gdnite kiss nuffin , then just as i thought he had gone to sleep he starts with he feels like a child, argues with me saying . . .. wat do i do for fun ??, basically the point he was trying to reach was im bitter cos i cant have a drink whilst pregnant , which isnt the case , i just feel like im losing it just miserable completly !! so now consequently im sleeping on the sofa !! whilst he is sleeping quite peacefully (only cos of beer), just dunno wat to do , i hate admitting that im wrong or have a problem wen it comes to jealousy but it cant be al me , surely he needs to understand that i cant be happy and up for anything 24/7 .
please sum1 help by giving some freindly advice . . . .
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just dont know wat to do !!!
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merryxmasfellowbumps · 10/01/2010 00:56
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