Just wondering if anyone is able to point me in the right direction before I loose my DP as well as all my friends.
Basically, without boring you with all the details, I need to change the way I communicate with people.
Over the last couple of years I seem to have found it really difficult to make friends or keep in touch with any old friends. It normaly goes that I suggest meeting up with someone and then they either completly ignore me for a while or say they have a lot on at the moment and will let me know when they're less busy, which of course they never do.
At the same time I've been haveing a few problems with DP. We can have a conversation which to me seems perfectly civil and normal but to him I've been rude, harsh, interrupted him, not listened to him etc.
Basically it's gradually occuring to me that there must be something wrong with the way I am talking to people. Does anyone know of a type of therapy, self help book or anything that can stop me being the way I am?
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shinyblackhair · 03/01/2010 13:44
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