I'm curious as I think ours is actually good, well certainly compared to a few of my friends, but DH just says 'I guess so'
We have 2 DC, 3 & 1, DH is on shifts so works all sorts of hours so isn't home a huge amount but we always manage to find time (usually last thing a night when the DC are asleep!) & we usually manage it 3 or 4 times a week. I know a friend of mine said her DH is lucky if he gets it 3 or 4 times a month!
So is that considered a good sex life or just ok?
Also how do we spice it up a bit? I don't mean hanging from the chandelier type of spicing it up but as I say we seem to have fallen into a (enjoyable but predictable) pattern of get the DC into bed, make sure they're alseep & go for it There has been to the odd occassion where we've had a quickie on the pretence of putting the washing away while the DC were amused playing toys downstairs. Is this how it will be til they grow up & move out?
I'm not complaining as I enjoy our sex life but it would be nice to have a bit of variation now & again
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What do you consider a good sex life to be? And how do you vary it when you have small DC?
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NormaSknockers · 02/01/2010 11:35
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