I want to tell p that I'm leaving him tonight. Would it be a really horrible thing to do before new year?
I've been struggling this from before xmas and had planned to wait until the new year. There'll always be something though to put it off - weddings, birthdays, committments. Before I know it'll be another year passed of living separate lives under one roof, sleeping in separate beds, no sex, no affection.
I've tried so hard to change things but he doesn't want it to be changed. I've talked until I'm blue in the face how I'm unhappy of how our relationship is heading. I've written letters and basically given him every opportunity to no avail.
Christmas has really taken the biscuit when he left me alone with ds to get pissed xmas eve and boxing day. He was too hungover to get up xmas day to open ds's presents and doesn't think it's a big deal as 'he's only 2 and won't remember'.
So tell me would it be horrible cos I'm just on the brink of packing my bag now??
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Want to leave p - better now or later?
christmasdilemma · 29/12/2009 13:02
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