I'd be really grateful for any opinions/experiences of this situation.
A male friend of mine is expecting a baby in a few months with his on/off girlfriend. They've known each other about a year, and it has been a bit of an up and down relationship with him generally keener than her.
The pregnancy was an accident (she had been on the pill, then they had a break and when they first got back together they just got carried away and didn't discuss contraception), and she said that she took the morning after pill the next day which didn't work. There was a brief discussion about a termination, but she decided to carry on with it and he has supported her.
She has a 5 year old DS from a previous marriage. They have recently talked about trying to make a proper go of their relationship, moving in together before the birth etc. However she suddenly seems to be pulling back a lot, more or less ending the romantic side of things with him, and talking instead about just co-parenting but not giving any clear reasons why.
My friend is pretty hurt by this, and has asked me if he thinks she used him just to get pregnant as she is almost 40 and had said to him previously that she wanted a sibling for her son before it is too late. He asked me how likely it was that a woman would do this (find a suitable candidate to get pregnant by with no real intention of settling down with them), so I thought of getting a few different, honest views from MN.
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Failure of morning after pill
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mapster · 07/12/2009 17:35
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